Wildfires can be unpredictable and scary, especially for kids who may not fully understand what’s happening. Whether your child is seeing smoky skies or hearing about fires on the news, they’re likely to have big questions—and it’s okay if you don’t have all the answers. What matters most is helping them feel informed, safe, and even empowered.
Here’s how to navigate these tough conversations with your kids
1. Keep it honest, yet age-appropriate
Honesty is crucial, but it should match your child’s age and developmental level.
Younger children need simple, reassuring explanations: “Firefighters are working hard to put the fires out and keep everyone safe.”
Older kids may ask more detailed questions about the causes of wildfires or the impact on the environment. Use clear, calm language and share only what they can process.
2. Make Space for their questions
Children may have questions like, “Will the fire come here?” or “What happens to the animals?” Take their concerns seriously and answer truthfully. It’s okay to say, “I don’t know, but we can find out together.” Providing space for their curiosity helps them feel heard and supported.
Once you’ve answered their immediate questions, the next step is helping them feel prepared.
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3. Explain the plan
Share your family’s wildfire plan in a way that is reassuring rather than alarming. For instance, “If we need to leave, we’ll grab our emergency bags, get in the car, and stay together.” Emphasize that your priority is keeping everyone safe.
4. Teach fire safety basics
Knowledge is powerful. Help kids understand what to do in an emergency:
- Practice evacuation routes together.
- Teach them when and how to call 911 if they spot a fire.
Empowering them with knowledge can reduce fear and build confidence. Beyond preparing for an emergency, children also feel comforted when they know they can help.
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5. Empower them to help
Taking action can turn fear into a sense of purpose. Encourage kids to:
- Donate supplies to local relief efforts
- Make cards or care packages for first responders or families affected
- Support organizations that aid wildfire victims
Letting kids know they can make a difference—no matter how small—gives them agency in a difficult situation.
6. Reassure them of your presence
Above all, let your kids know you’ll be there for them, no matter what. Natural disasters can be scary, even for grown-ups. “We’ll face this together as a family” is a message that can provide immense comfort.
Preparation can make all the difference when it comes to wildfires. Here are actionable steps to protect your family:
- Call 911 Immediately if You See a Wildfire. Teach kids to do the same.
- Follow Evacuation Orders Without Hesitation. Your safety is the priority.
- Limit Smoke Exposure. Keep doors/windows shut, avoid strenuous activity, and use N95 masks if available.
- Make Your Home Visible: In heavy smoke, turning on lights inside and outside your home can help responders identify your location.
Beyond protecting your own family, many parents are looking for ways to support those directly impacted by the wildfires. Here’s how you can help.
How to support wildfire relief efforts in California
If you’re looking for ways to help families affected by the wildfires, here’s where you can donate:
Trusted organizations accepting donations
Where to volunteer in California wildfire relief
Looking to give hands-on support? Here are organizations that need volunteers:
- @caninerescueclub – Helps displaced pets and animals.
- @mysafela – Works with the LA Fire Department to strengthen community resilience.
- Volunteer County of Los Angeles – Offers opportunities to assist with disaster response and recovery.
- American Red Cross Los Angeles Region – Needs shelter volunteers for wildfire-affected families.
Stay updated with trusted sources
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By having these conversations, preparing as a family, and finding ways to help, you’re not just easing your child’s fears—you’re showing them what it means to be resilient in the face of uncertainty. In moments of crisis, children look to the adults in their lives for strength.
When you approach wildfires with calm, knowledge, and action, you’re teaching them one of the most valuable lessons of all: that even in the face of the unexpected, they are never powerless. They are prepared, they are supported, and they are never alone.
